And I should have picked up this – she has a name for the people who are super into her work. Seemed like a sign!Įxcept, literally the next day, a good friend who is a therapist, and who had no idea I was reading this book, out of the blue raised how dangerous this woman is as an Instagram influencer. She even has a new book coming out and is coming to my town to talk, and I signed up for tickets. If I’d written this review the second I put down the book, it probably would have been a solid 3, maybe 3.5 stars. She talks about diseases that have a genetic component, sharing stories of for example a woman with MS who couldn’t walk but now can, I guess because she healed her inner child? I’m being glib, but I find that to be a dangerous outlook.Īs I said, I had some reservations, but I did also find parts related to inner child work and parental relationships useful. Which, on the surface, sounds great … except it isn’t true? Like, some shit is beyond our control, and it seems weirdly un-evolved and unhealthy to ignore that. She does pay lip service to privilege (though really as it relates to racism, and not seeming to see how people who are not disabled, or how people in other marginalized communities might face challenges) but overall the biggest take-away for me from her is that the individual is both responsible for and able to create their own future. Like, a little bit like The Secret but for therapy? Dr LePera seems to push the notion that one can literally fix anything through some breath work and journaling.
But there’s something about the tone of this book that feels very bootstrap-y. Was it because I just wasn’t ready to read some of the suggestions? Or was it because it felt a little … grifty? Honestly, I’m already going to side-eye anyone who promotes intermittent fasting, but no author and I are going to agree on everything. Some parts were helpful in me understanding things, and some suggestions fall into the ‘couldn’t hurt’ category, but something about this book was rubbing me the wrong way. She and I are going to have a chat about it next session.Īs I was reading this book, I had some reservations. There’s an area I’m working on in therapy and I asked my therapist for a book recommendation. I underlined a lot, but I don’t think there’s anything worth sharing. Instagram influencer psychologist Dr LePera offers her suggestions on how to work through issues
People who are already working with a therapist, as that therapist can point out which parts of the book are useful and which are … super not. - US Taxes: Yes, You Still Have to Pay Them.- Getting a Job: Your National Insurance Number.
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